Pls advice me
Post: #1
Hello ladies and gentlemen, pls friends there is this girl i met we both luv each other she cant stay without hearing my voice aleast 3 times daily she luvs me so much and i luv her too, i treat her like all that i hav, i cant even stay for a whole day without hearing her voice she is everytin to me, d girl that almost fight her sister just bcos i went out with her sister, she showed me luv but all of a sudden she changed her character towards me she no longer care abt me even to call me anymore when ever i called her,sometimes she will ignore my calling even telling me that am disturbing her, i hav sat her down many times and asked her wht was d problem even if i hav done anytin to offend u that u should tell me and i will apologise she told me that there is no problem. Pls friends i think that she is into another relationship and am loosen d trust and luv i hav for her i luv that girl i dnt wnt to let her go just like that pls advice me on how to win her heart back or should i let her go, THANKX.
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Post: #2
I think your love is fading due to the fact that you didn't pay attention to the 'early warning signs', although its a good thing you are asking for others opinion now.
Since you had tried to have an open heart sit-down and it didn't work, I think you should let things cool down for a little while; meanwhile, try and act normal without complaining or showing signs of desperation (Girls can sense this).
If she really loved you and have another hidden lover, in a short while, She will get over her 'new love' and that will be your opportunity to to cement your relationship.
Time is all you need, you should also plan to dazzle her with your new persona as soon as she retraces her steps. Good luck.

You might want to read this:

It is often much easier to get something than to hold onto it. As everyone knows, the same goes for relationships.
Want to keep your lady in your life?
Here are some ways that you can stay close and happy together.
Steps
1. Call her at least 2 or 3 times a day, just to talk, say hi, or get to know each other better. No one ever wants to be forgotten throughout the day. If for some reason, you can't call her, at least send a text message or email telling her that you care.

2. Listen to her attentively when she talks . There is an art to deep listening. It's more than just hearing her voice. You have to know what she is saying and understand that she is trusting you with what she says.
3. Take note of her likes and dislikes . You want to make her happy, and giving her her favoriteflowers is a lot better than her least favorite candy. Keep in mind what she enjoys.

4. Compliment her honestly as often as possible . If it's not sincere, it's not worth anything. Women appreciate it if you comment positively on their appearance from time to time.

5. Buy her flowers sometimes . It doesn't have to be all the time, and it doesn't always have to be two dozen roses. While red roses are popular, they are also very cliche. Try to be original. Remember, it is the thought that counts. A casual bouquet of flowers picked from a park or lawn on the way to her house letsher know that you are thinking about her. Try some bright colors,such as yellow, orange, and pink. Peonies are usually favorites.

6. Take her to dinner . You don't always have to take her to a 5 star restaurant. Just go out to a place where you are both comfortable. Also, remember to cover the bill, but if she insists upon paying, let her pay the tip.

7. Be affectionate but not aggressive . You don't want to come off the wrong way.

8. Make sure she is comfortable . Her needs should always come before your own.

9. Do some things you like to do (baseball game, biking, etc .), and do some things she likes to do (see a movie, go shopping on occasion). You want to attain a happy medium between the two.

10. Buy her things that are meaningful and that she will enjoy . The gift does not have to be very expensive, as it is the thought that counts, but do try to steer clear of places such as Wal-Mart. You get the idea.

11. Be sure to spend quality time together . Schedule outings together like going to a movie, out to dinner, or just going to each others' houses to spend time together.

TIPS:
Be nice to her pets, relatives, friends, etc. Impress her parents, but don't overdo it. Honesty is the best policy.
Trust and respect are foundations of a good relationship.
If you love her, tell her. You don't want to wait.
Escort her to family and friends' functions such as picnics, weddings, holiday parties, etc. You may not want to go, but it is the respectful thing to do. She will appreciate you more if you go with her, and it shows you care about what is important to her.
WARNINGS
Avoid making her do things that are dangerous or disgusting.
Try to avoid making promises you already know you cannot keep.

http://www.wikihow.com/Keep-Your-Lady
Love is the answer.
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Post: #3
Im so happy that u comment on d issue am very grateful, yes u re right abt d early signs but i didnt take it serious and now everytin is fading away but i still maintain every words i hav said nt to let u down, dis is a girl that i gave my heart,soul and everytin abt me and i still believe that if she still luv me that she will still be back to me and even if she dnt wnt again i will just let it be....THANKS.
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Post: #4
smile
Love is the answer.
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